Your One Wild and Precious Life

Mary_Oliver_New_and_Selected_PoemsOn this last day of National Poetry Month, I’m keeping in mind two quotes from Mary Oliver. The first comes from her National Book Award acceptance speech:

Poetry happens because of life, and poetry happens because of language and poetry happens because of other poets

The other comes from a poem in New and Selected Poems, for which she won the National Book Award. The poem is titled “The Summer Day”:

Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?

I hope the answer includes reading more poetry. – Meg

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Bookstores Worth Browsing: Book Passage in Corte Madera, and at the Ferry Building, too

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Book Passage at the Ferry Building

If you’re in the San Francisco Bay area and don’t know about Book Passage, let me bend your ear for a minute. This fabulous store, started by Elaine Petrocelli in the 1970s, not only is a lovely place with a terrific selection of books, but it also hosts more author events than any other single store in the San Francisco Bay area.

The original store is in Corte Madera, a long way from Palo Alto. But I venture up there more often than you might think for the events.  Among the authors I’ve seen there: Alice McDermott, J. Courtney Sullivan, and Sue Miller. Not only do they host amazing authors, but Elaine also does a look at books for the holidays that is one of the best ways I know of to arm yourself for holiday shopping. (And, okay, it’s a nice excuse to see my writer-friend Julia Flynn Siler.)

Book Passage has a second store in the Ferry Building in San Francisco that is smaller, but still has a great selection and also hosts events. The tables outside the San Francisco store are one of my favorite field trip writing haunts.

But wait! There’s more!

CWC LogoBook Passage also hosts a terrific roster of classes and workshops: everything from travel writing to marketing to speaking French. The meetings for the Marin chapter of the California Writers Club, too. Tanya Egan Gibson puts together some terrific panels for that.

But the thing that makes Book Passage really extraordinary is the booksellers. One time when I was up there, one of them put Jeffrey Eugenides’s Middlesex in my hands. I said as politely as I could that I’d heard about it but I wasn’t all that interested in reading it. She said as politely as she could that I was an idiot if I wasn’t open-minded enough to consider this book, and also that it was going to win the Pulitzer Prize. She was right–on both accounts.

Samuel Park Reading at Book Passage at the Ferry Building

Samuel Park Reading at Book Passage at the Ferry Building

Calvin Crosby is Book Passage’s general manager, and I can tell you there is not a nicer guy in the world, and probably very few who know books better than Calvin does. If you go, tell him I said hi! – Meg

 

More “Bookstores Worth Browsing” posts can be found under “Literary Travel.” If you have a favorite store and would like to share it, please leave a comment about it below and I will email you.

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Five Facebook Tips for Authors and Others (or “Being Generous Always Feels Better than Being Jealous”)

Having only recently learned to size my Timeline photos 403×403 square only to find that no longer works with the new face of Facebook timeline–or at least not all the time–I thought I’d share a few Facebook tips I’ve learned in the last few days, months, and years, often the hard way. Some of these are practical, some philosophical:

1. SIZE MATTERS: If you don’t want your personal timeline photos to be randomly cropped by facebook, size them as 640 x 480 pixels. On a page timeline, they still need to be 403 x 403. Headers for both personal accounts and pages should be 851 x 315 pixels. (Best loading if it’s less than 100 kb.) Profile pictures have to be at least 180 x 180 pixels, and will display at 160 x 160 pixels. For placement, this handy dandy chart comes from facebook. I found it hidden under an arrow on one of their help pages; the page link is imbedded in the picture if you want to have a go at finding it yourself:Screen Shot 2013-04-24 at 9.07.25 AM

2. RULES OF ENGAGEMENT: The point of having a facebook page is to get folks engaging with you. Engaged fans will be more likely to pick up your next book, and perhaps even help spread the news. To that end, stop thinking about yourself for a minute (or an hour, or forever) and think about what’s in this for your readers. Ask for their input. Ask their opinions. Offer them something they want. Make them smile. Make them laugh.

3. GENEROSITY TRUMPS JEALOUSY: I’ve found one of the best uses for social networking in general and Facebook in particular is the opportunity it provides to connect with authors and others in publishing. Books aren’t like cars; almost no one reads a single book every 5 or 10 years, and the ones that do aren’t your best shot at gaining a good audience for your work. There is plenty to be gained by sharing fellow authors’ good news, including the possibility that they might share yours in return. And it always feels nicer to be generous than to be jealous. (Money-back guarantee on that!)

4. TO GIVEAWAY OR NOT TO GIVEAWAY, THAT IS THE QUESTION: There are a lot of rules to hosting a giveaway on facebook, but the bottom line is:

You must use a page app and you must notify the winner some place other than facebook. There are lots of these, and you can even make one yourself. I use binkd because it does a fair amount for a modest cost and I’ve already invested the time to figure it out. But I’ll warn you: it’s not intuitive. If you generally use a Chrome browser (which I do), do this in Safari. Some others that have various functions for various costs include giveawaytab, rafflecopter, and wildfire. (If you have one you love, please share in the comments below!)

You can “likegate” a contest — that is to say, set it up so it is only open to folks who like your page. Or folks who are willing to like your page in order to enter the contests. The easiest way to do this is through one of the apps discussed above. But..

Building followers can be a curse as well as a blessing. Yes, you might get more page likes through a contest, but if you can’t convert those new likes into engaged readers, it can hurt you in the long run. Facebook uses complicated algorithms to decide who sees what, and having a lot of page fans who don’t engage isn’t necessarily a positive. So when structuring a contest, consider what will attract fans who will be interested in your books (or other products) rather than simply attracting fans.

5. THE ONLY THING WE HAVE TO WASTE IS WRITING TIME ITSELF: Facebook is only a time sink if you let it be. Trying doing your writing first, and going to your favorite social media sites only when you’re done for the day.

In the spirit of it always feels good to be generous, please share your helpful hints in the comments below. I’ll promise to share the ones I like best! And if this post was helpful to you, please share it with your friends. – Meg

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Allie Larkin: Fake-Out (or, How Not to Write a Novel)

Allie Larkin is the internationally bestselling author of the novel Stay. Jen Lancaster calls her “a master at creating complex characters who feel like old friends and crafting situations that you’d swear really happened,” and says of her new novel, Why Can’t I Be You, “I adored this book!” And Allie is sharing with 1st Books her very ingenious (and charming!) way of getting around that very common fear of novel-writing failure. – Meg

Why Can't I Be YouI should have known I was writing a novel, but I kept myself in a state of deep denial even after everyone around me knew that’s what I was doing.

In my mind, I was already a failed novelist with three chapters of an awful and abandoned tome hidden away in shame on a hard-drive. There was no point in beating a dead cliché.

STAY started as a writing exercise in college, resurrected when I was asked to join a writing group a year or so after graduation. I’d given up on writing almost completely, and welcomed the chance to mess around and write a short story. I slogged away on my eight pages a week for group, writing detailed back-story and subplots under the guise that I was just trying to get to know my characters better.

Every Sunday while I waited for my pages to print, I’d nervously check Duotrope Digest for submission guidelines, watching the list of possible literary magazines dwindle as my word count grew.

The writing flowed, and the characters made sense to me. Everything felt different from my failed attempt. I finally understood what writers meant when they talked about ‘finding their voice.’ But, I still couldn’t bring myself to commit. Surely I’d lose twenty or thirty thousand words when I edited. I was just seeing where the story could take me. I wasn’t writing a novel.

Finally, when I neared sixty thousand words and wasn’t close to done, I had to face the facts: my story would never be short. My methods of self-deception had to change. I focused on telling the best story I could for the characters I’d fallen in love with. I didn’t think about finding an agent, or a publisher, or strangers someday reading my work. I thought about Savannah Leone and her dog named Joe. I focused on her feelings instead of my own. I still called it a story. I just left out the short part.

I was two drafts in, with a stack of manuscript pages on the desk in front of me, before I let myself really think of my story as a novel. Even though I had several drafts ahead of me, I could finally let go of the denial. Having written a novel was much easier to deal with than wanting to write a novel.

Allie Larkin Author PhotoFor my second book, WHY CAN’T I BE YOU, I was working under contact. I knew it was going to be a novel, because I was contractually obligated to write a novel. The hugeness of the task overwhelmed me. I doubted every plot twist and character arc and eventually my ability to even write a book at all.

So, I quit.

On a Friday night I told my husband I wasn’t going to write the book.* I spent Saturday making peace with my decision. On Sunday an entire scene popped into my head perfectly. I sat down to write and fell in love with one of the characters so completely that the idea of not writing him anymore was painful. So, I did what I’d done the first time around: I focused on writing the characters I loved the best way I could. I thought about their hopes and fears instead of my own. Scene by scene, I wrote an 80,000 word short story that reads like a novel. I just needed to fake myself out of the pressure and the expectations so I could focus on the work.

Now, I’m busy at work on another short story. We won’t call it a novel.** Fooling myself is a part of the process. – Allie

*I’m thankful to have married a man who humors me so well.
**But it totally is.

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Practical Poetry

Poet Joan Gelfand is chipping in for the 1st Books National Poetry Month celebration with a wonderful post looking at the practical side of poetry, and how a poet gets her work published. Joan is the author of “The Long Blue Room,” “A Dreamer’s Guide to Cities and Streams,” “Here & Abroad,” and “Seeking Center.” California State Poet Laureate Al Young (2005-2009) says of her work, “Readers, beware. This is powerful stuff.” She’s also a member of the National Book Critics Circle, Poetry Editor for the “J” and Co-Poetry Liaison for the San Francisco Writers Conference, and Development Chair of the Women’s National Book Association. Enjoy her advice, and happy National Poetry Month! - Meg

dreamerscover-reducedAs a young poet my biggest challenge was not craft, or inspiration, or performance. It wasn’t in making connections with other poets or consistently turning out publishable work. I happily allowed editors of magazines to publish my work when they asked. I wasn’t shy or introverted, or insecure about my work. My real challenge was becoming known in the poetry community and developing the ability to submit work. I could churn out high-level poems, but taking criticism from an editor was not in my purview.

Joan_Gelfand_PhotoI volunteered to be the Poetry Editor of a popular women’s newspaper and I established myself locally in the community of writers and artists that was the vibrant scene Berkeley in the seventies. The highlight of that era was when a popular band recorded one of my poems as a song on their first album. What a thrill to hear my words sung on the radio as I was driving across the Bay Bridge!

But unlike now, when a young artist would jump on social media to leverage their success, my challenge was finding the time, the motivation and the commitment to be known. I didn’t understand how important it was to send out enough work to truly establish myself. By the end of my twenties, I had a degree from San Francisco State in Creative Writing. I had studied with Stan Rice, Kathleen Fraser and Leonard Woolf. And I had a sufficient body of work – enough for a collection to be sure – but I was clueless about how to go about it. In those days, writing programs did not emphasize the importance of publication beyond submitting to the school literary journal. And there were certainly no workshops in grantwriting or becoming a professional poet.

Fast-forward ten years. I was still writing but I had full-time job, a child and owned a house. Sending out work was squeezed into an evening once a month. I had no plan, and was never consistent.

It took me another decade to realize that having published books would help me to be taken seriously. I started an epic campaign of submitting. In the first several years of my efforts, I sent out over two hundred packages of work – a year! It took about six months but soon I was being published regularly. My first book was accepted by a small press, and two years later, my second book was published. The year after that I won a contest for short fiction and a chapbook was published. This year, another poetry collection was accepted for publication. I’ve been nominated for Pushcart Prizes, a Carver Prize and have won twelve different poetry awards. Now, I receive invitations to submit to anthologies and to speak.

A popular legend in the poetry community has it that as young poets Kay Ryan and Jane Hirshfield got together regularly to submit their work. They sent out hundreds of packages. When people questioned this unorthodox approach, they responded: “We want to get the editors used to our voices.”

So, what’s the moral of the story? The moral is that after an intense period (six years!) of commitment to a program of submissions and publishing, I am now teaching poetry and coaching aspiring writers. And, I speak publicly on “A Three-pronged Approach to Getting Published.” As I tell my students, getting published is like looking for a job. You wouldn’t go in for an interview well-dressed with a shoddy resume, or you wouldn’t begin a search without finding out who in your profession could be of help. It’s the same with writing – first, you perfect your craft. But then you must build your writer’s resume with a list of published works. And last, you build your network. It’s a lot of work, but it’s worth it! – Joan

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At the Intersection of Earth Day and National Poetry Month

Rydal Water, where Wordsworth walked and wrote

Rydal Water, where Wordsworth walked and wrote

Can I resist the excuse of the intersection of Earth Day and National Poetry Month to share two favorite poems that explore the earth and nature?

The first, from Elizabeth Bishop’s The Moose, always reminds me of the only moose I’ve ever seen in the wild, from a bus when I was on a youth group trip to Canada decades ago. This is one of my favorite poems, in part because it brings with its words that breathtaking memory:

Geography_III_by_Elizabeth_Bishop“Taking her time,
she looks the bus over,
grand, otherworldly.
Why, why do we feel
(we all feel) this sweet
sensation of joy?”

On those trips, our youth group leader taught us to leave the places we visited more pristine than when we came, and to that end we used biodegradable soaps when we camped, and cleaned up not just our own trash, but also any other we saw.

Let_Evening_Come_CoverThe second poem I first heard read at Marilyn Yalom’s home; John Felstiner read it so beautifully that I was literally left weeping in my chair. It begins:

Let the light of late afternoon
shine through chinks in the barn, moving
up the bales as the sun moves down.

You can read the entirety of that poem, “Let Evening Come” by Jane Kenyon, on page 273-4 of The Four Ms. Bradwells (used with permission, of course), or on page 326 of John’s Can Poetry Save the Earth, a volume I commend to you.

I’m often inspired in my writing by places of beauty I have the good fortune to be able to see, here in California, in the Maryland countryside, on the Chesapeake, in the English Lake District, and elsewhere. I’m not alone, as these poems show. You don’t need to look any further than the photo at the top of this post, snapped by me on a typical English Lake District afternoon, to see that there is a reason, for example, that the Lake District Poets, including Wordsworth, found inspiration in the natural beauty of the Lake District. Can Poetry Save the EarthI’m going to spend some time today thinking about what I take from this earth, and what I leave. Will you join me? – Meg

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