It’s always a special treat for me to host debut novelists like my shewrites.com pal Yejide Kilanko, whose evocatively-titled Daughters Who Walk This Path is just out from Penguin Canada. Yejide was born in Ibadan, Nigeria and majored in Political Science at the University of Ibadan before marrying and moving to Laurel, Maryland (not far from my old Greenspring Valley stomping grounds and those of my Gaithersburg Book Fest friends). She attended the University of Victoria, and is now a Child Protection Worker living in Chatham, Ontario. And a published novelist! Do enjoy her story of how she got there, and take a look at this debut novel that Chika Unigwe calls “a subtle yet complex exploration of what it means to be a young woman growing up in contemporary Nigeria … a delightful, haunting book from a very talented writer.” – Meg
The things that can happen when we go down different paths.
My debut novel, Daughters Who Walk This Path, really began life as a short poem I wrote in June 2009. That poem was titled Silence Speaks. At the time, my day job was as a newly minted Social Worker in child protection services. The role guaranteed a constant exposure to heart-wrenching stories of child sexual abuse and I struggled to fall and stay asleep. Working on the novel every night, sometimes through the night, became my outlet. This is why I have often said that in the beginning, I really wrote the novel for me.
The truth was that prior to this time, writing a novel had not been on my list of things to do. I did love words since I became an avid reader at a young age and started writing mostly autobiographical poems when I was twelve. But as far as I was concerned, life had other plans for me.
Over the course of eight months, the novel grew from scribbles of random thoughts to a manuscript I shared with a few close friends. Their encouraging words spurred me on to work on it some more and a year later, I had a complete manuscript. I also had no idea about what to do with it.
By then, I had read on many writing sites that most, if not all writers, had those first, starter manuscripts tucked away somewhere, never to see the light of day. I decided that I too would put my starter novel away. At least, I had proved to myself that I could write a novel. Who was I, to think that my story was good enough to be published?
However, an inspiring conversation with an old friend during a July 2010 visit to Nigeria made me rethink my position about seeking publication. I thought to myself that there had to be a reason why I had gone down this writing path. I had to give myself a chance. I could not quit without even starting.
On August 16, 2010, with an equal mixture of dread and anticipation, I sent out queries to literary agents in the United States. That same day, I received a request for a full manuscript. Exactly one week later, I had an offer of representation from one of the agents I had queried. I was ecstatic and thus began the second part of this incredible journey.
In May 2011, Daughters Who Walk This Path was bought by Penguin Canada. The novel was published on April 10, 2012. Following the exciting news that the novel was Costco Canada’s buyer Catherine Bergeron’s pick for the month, on May 5, 2012, the novel debuted on the Globe and Mail Bestseller’s list.
As I write this, my head is still spinning from all the things that have happened in such a short time. One thought that often comes to my mind when I think of this unlikely journey, is what would have happened if I had kept that first manuscript tucked away in the bottom of my drawer.
I guess, we’ll never know. – Yejide
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Wow. What a whirlwind success story! Can’t wait to read it!
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Thank you Anjali. It has been a whirlwind journey for sure
Your story is just so inspiring. It really encourages newbies/writers out there to do all the possible ways just to reach their dreams. You really deserve all the success since you’re such a talented writer.What advice can you give to aspiring writers out there? Thanks for sharing.
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Hi Nicque,
Thanks for your kind comments. My primary advice would be believe in yourself (in your ability). Develop a writing regimen. Write as often as you can. Read a lot (experiment across genres) so that you can continue to grow as a writer. Cultivate support by finding a critique partner or group. In terms of the business end of writing, professionalism is key in all your dealings with the industry. Respect other people’s time, be courteous and open to editing your manuscript for the hundredth time if need be. I hope this helps. All the best!
Dear Yejide,
My name is Allie and I am a 17 year old who has fallen inlove with your novel. This story fell into my hands by luck, as my teacher suggested I read it knowing I would then use it for my end of the year essay. Boy am I ever glad she suggested your novel, I read it in under 3 days. I often found myself engulfed by the story, blocking everything else out as if I was right there along side your characters. The story made me feel a whirlwind of emotions including saddnes, fear, anger, and helplessness. Many of my peers questioned why I would love a book that has caused me to feel such emotions, but the fact that you were able to evoke such feelings is incredible, and I very much respect you for that ability. I found myslef giggling at parts, crying at parts, feeling as if I needed to be the one to stand up for Morayo’s misfortunes at times. To arouse those kinds of emotions from within a reader just through words is sign of an amazing author which indeed you are:)
I was wondering if you could answer a couple questions though. Unfortunately I am the only one in my class who has choosen to read your book so I have no one to talk to it about, but beside these are more personal questions for you to answer if you’d so kindly do so
I wanted to know if you personally liked Morayo. I know you created her, but were you happy with the way her situation ended? To be honest, I was rather surprised she did not speak her mind to Bros T when she had the chance to do so near the end of the book when they had grown and he no longer had control over her, and perhaps you had a reason for that. I was just wondering what it was. Do you think she had more difficulty forgiving Bros T, or her mother? I just really want to know why her mother never really did anything about it. Its ridiculous but as a teen myself I almost felt betrayed. Last and final question, in your opinion, what is the “path” these daughters walk?
Sorry this was so long!
I really hope I hear from you soon:)
Once again I loved your book, and have suggested it to almost every one I know <3
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